Are you a see-through, stripped down leader?
If so…congratulations! If not…reading this blog post may be one of the best decisions you have made in a long while (and not because I am a great writer!)
I keep hearing a plea from Gen Ys around the world for both advertisers and leaders to be more authentic…to become more see-through and stripped down. They say they are tired of hype and brands that are wrapped in gobs of shiny paper, ribbon and bells and whistles…the demand for simplicity is screaming, but are we really doing something about it?
I was in The Gap last week, and within five minutes, my daughter and I were overwhelmed. Did we want skinny, flare or boot-cut jeans? Did we want dark or light denim? Did we want stretch or original? Then…what size and length. I had a headache from pulling jeans off the shelf, and finally we left the store with a sweater and a skirt…no jeans. I love The Gap, but the store was covered up in clothing…piles and piles and clothes thrown on the floor…it looked like a carnage had taken place. The overwhelm had gotten the best of us, so we tried to get over the Gap hangover by heading to Maggianos for some pasta (so that we then had to then buy bigger jeans!)
I keep wondering where this craving for authenticity is taking our world. As a coach, for years, we have taught programs like “Simplicity” and “Clean Sweep” and “Authentic You.” But for Gen Ys, these concepts are nothing new…they are how they are choosing to live, and they are now scrutinizing companies and leaders who are not transparent. Good for them! Maybe we will finally all get to a greater life as a result.
Since age 5, Gen Y has been bombarded with messages and millions of bits and pieces of information. They have watched as scams and scandals have come to the forefront of our society, and they say they are in information overload. Adderall is being eaten like candy just to get through exam week, and multi-tasking is not an “art”, it is at the root of Gen Y’s core. So…can you blame Gen Y for wanting things to be more authentic and simple? And…if you are a decision maker who is trying to lead the Millennial generation, what can you do?
Here are 5 strategies I recommend to leaders who are working on becoming more authentic/more stripped down:
1) Write your manifesto…uncensored. Write stream of consciousness about your life story, your frustrations, your quirks and your assets. Once finished, sit down and talk with a trusted friend about your story and how you can bring more of who you are into the work you do as a leader.
2) Drop the white lies. If you are telling a white lie, you will eventually get caught. Always happens. If you need help with some language to be able to tell the truth, work with a coach to develop out the words you need to speak from a place of truth.
3) Learn how to admit you made a mistake and apologize publicly for those mistakes. It takes a lot of guts to admit a flaw, but it can help you build a deeper connection with people. If you need help, ask a coach or a close colleague for support.
4) Surround yourself with people who you genuinely like and care about and who like and care about you. This is critical. As a leader, if you are spending time with people who are not truly a reflection of who you are OR worse…who you don’t like, it will trip you up in a New York minute.
5) Know your strengths and your shortcomings, and work on both. Some people believe that addressing weaknesses is a drain and a waste of energy. While there is some truth to this, Gen Y can spot a hole or weakness from a mile away. The best thing you can do as a leader is to openly admit when you have a weakness and what you plan to do about it. Your plan of action may be to delegate out that area of your leadership to someone else, but the bottom line is that you have to be willing to talk about where and how you are falling short and what you plan to do about it.
If you care deeply about your company and the people who follow you, you can make a positive impact on your Gen Ys by becoming more authentic…starting today.